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Wasteful Dispositon of Assets?

Supreme Court, Appellate Division, Third Department, New York.

 

Maria A. ALTIERI, Respondent,

v.

Lawrence J. ALTIERI, Appellant.

 

Dec. 28, 2006

 

.

 

Before: PETERS, J.P., MUGGLIN, ROSE, LAHTINEN and KANE, JJ.

KANE, J.

 

Appeal from a judgment of the Supreme Court (Malone Jr., J.), entered September 6, 2005 in Albany County, ordering, inter alia, equitable distribution of the parties' marital property, upon a decision of the court.

 

The parties, who were married in 1973, stipulated to the distribution of some assets in this divorce action, but proceeded to a nonjury trial to resolve the equitable distribution of the remaining assets, maintenance and counsel fees. Supreme Court's decision edited but mainly adopted plaintiff's proposed findings of fact and conclusions of law, making that document its order and judgment of divorce. As relevant here, the court awarded plaintiff the marital residence, made her responsible for the mortgage on that residence, divided most of the financial accounts evenly, found that defendant wastefully dissipated marital assets by cashing in stocks and taking loans and withdrawals from his 401k plan, and awarded defendant the remaining amount of his 401k plan. Defendant appeals.

 

Defendant first contends that Supreme Court erred in awarding plaintiff a liquid asset in the form of the marital residence while awarding him a nonliquid asset in the form of his 401k plan. We disagree. Trial courts are accorded substantial deference in determining what distribution of marital property is equitable, and such determinations will not be disturbed if the court considered the statutory factors and did not abuse its discretion (see Carman v. Carman, 22 AD3d 1004, 1007 [2005]; Robbins-Johnson v. Johnson, 20 AD3d 723, 725 [2005]; see also Domestic Relations Law ? 236[B][5][d] ). The liquid or nonliquid character of assets is one factor to consider (see Domestic Relations Law ? 236[B][5][d][7]; Fanelli v. Fanelli, 14 AD3d 592, 592 [2005] ). While courts should ordinarily avoid methods of property division which provide one spouse with immediate enjoyment of assets and relegate the other spouse to a potentially long and uncertain wait before access to the equity in the assets is realized (see Cutson v. Cutson, 161 A.D.2d 996, 999 [1990]; Tanner v. Tanner, 107 A.D.2d 980, 981 [1985] ), that principle was not violated here. Although defendant will be required to pay income tax on any withdrawals from his 401k account, based on his age he is entitled to make withdrawals without penalties, and had done so several times prior to commencement of this action. As he failed to prove the nonliquidity of that asset, it was properly awarded as an offset against his portion of the marital residence awarded to plaintiff (see Fanelli v. Fanelli, supra at 592; Brandt v. Brandt, 176 A.D.2d 1016, 1017 [1991]; compare Tanner v. Tanner, supra at 981 [inequitable to award marital residence to one party while other party received unvested pension rights which would not be accessible for 16 years] ).

 

Nor do we find that Supreme Court erred in not adjusting the distributions from defendant's 401k account for tax consequences. Significantly, defendant did not prove the tax impact of those withdrawals. Likewise, were plaintiff to liquidate the realty, she would incur costs for repairs, counsel fees and broker fees. Under the circumstances of this case, considering plaintiff's attachment to the marital home, defendant's actions in secreting assets during the marriage, his failure to disclose significant assets in his financial disclosure statement and his incredible testimony concerning the use of certain assets, it was equitable to balance the distribution of the marital residence to plaintiff against the distribution of the 401k plan to defendant.

 

Supreme Court also did not abuse its discretion in awarding plaintiff credits for amounts that defendant withdrew from marital assets, cash that defendant secreted in the home and did not claim in his statement of net worth and money in accounts that defendant closed, all while matrimonial actions were contemplated or pending. As the court weighed credibility and determined that defendant failed to adequately explain his withdrawals or account for these marital assets, the finding of wasteful dissipation was appropriate and logically resulted in a credit to plaintiff for her distributive portion of those depleted assets (see Domestic Relations Law ? 236[B][5][d][11]; Brzuszkiewicz v. Brzuszkiewicz, 28 AD3d 860, 861 [2006]; Galachiuk v. Galachiuk, 262 A.D.2d 1026, 1027 [1999] ).

 

We do, however, modify the distribution of one marital debt. Although plaintiff took issue with the use of funds from defendant's 401k plan to finance their daughter's wedding, she concedes a willingness to contribute to the cost of that event. Given the parties' respective incomes, it is equitable that plaintiff repay defendant approximately one third of the cost of the wedding, to wit $10,000.

 

Although Supreme Court should not have made plaintiff's proposed findings and conclusions into a judgment, the error is harmless here. The court did not abdicate its responsibility and adopt a party's cursory proposals wholesale (compare Capasso v. Capasso, 119 A.D.2d 268, 275 [1986] ). Rather, the findings and conclusions address the statutory factors and supply reasons for the court's decision (see Domestic Relations Law ? 236[B][5][g] ). The court edited the findings by deleting some proposals and adding other information, reasoning and awards. Still, by signing the proposed findings and conclusions and stating that such document would constitute the court's order and judgment, the court violated the regulation which states that "[f]indings and conclusions shall be in a separate paper from the judgment" (22 NYCRR 202.50[a]). Defendant never addressed this regulatory violation with Supreme Court, nor does he allege any prejudice from the court's failure to sign two separate papers. Under these circumstances, we find no reversible error.

 

ORDERED that the judgment is modified, on the facts, without costs, by directing plaintiff to pay defendant $10,000; and, as so modified, affirmed.

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  Trial Judges in New York constantly make mistakes.  Basic principles of equitable distribution are not followed.  I have found that at least the appellate division gets it right.  You should always consult a qualified New York Divorce Attorney.  Read the following..... and you may begin to understand the process.
Decided and Entered: January 25, 2007
500567

[*1]GREGORY ARNONE, Respondent,

v

MICHELE ARNONE, Appellant.



MEMORANDUM AND ORDER


Lahtinen, J.

Appeal from a judgment of the Supreme Court (Malone Jr., J.), entered September 8, 2005 in Columbia County, ordering, inter alia, equitable distribution of the parties' marital property, upon a decision of the court.

The parties married in 1980 and they have two children, born in 1982 and 1985. This divorce action was commenced in 1997, but was not actively pursued until 2000 when an attempted reconciliation disintegrated. For several years prior to the 2003 trial, the children resided with plaintiff, who provided their financial support. At the commencement of the trial, defendant withdrew her answer allowing plaintiff a divorce on the ground of abandonment and the proof proceeded regarding equitable distribution.

Following several days of testimony stretching over 14 months and much conflicting evidence, Supreme Court determined, among other things, that the marital property consisted of the parties' residence, the various personal property located there, a 1982 Camaro, and a portion of plaintiff's state retirement benefit. The court distributed to defendant the residence (valued at $172,000), all personal property at the residence (except a few specifically named items), and the Camaro. Plaintiff was permitted to keep his state pension of about $13,000 per year. Supreme Court directed that defendant would keep her pension; however, she had none. Various bank accounts were determined to be separate property and thus not subject to equitable distribution. The court terminated temporary maintenance as of the date of the judgment of divorce, to wit, August 30, 2005, and awarded no further maintenance. Defendant's request for counsel fees was denied. Plaintiff remained solely financially responsible for the one child who was not yet [*2]emancipated. Defendant appeals.

Defendant argues that Supreme Court erred in its distribution of the assets of the marriage. As a general principle, "'[c]ourts are not mandated to distribute marital property on an equal basis; rather, marital property is distributed in light of the needs and circumstances of the parties'" (Brzuskiewicz v Brzuskiewicz, 28 AD3d 860, 861 [2006], quoting Strang v Strang, 222 AD2d 975, 977 [1995]). "Equitable distribution issues are resolved by the exercise of the court's sound discretion, guided by consideration of the statutory factors . . ." (Lincourt v Lincourt, 4 AD3d 666, 666 [2004] [citations omitted]; see Ruzicka v Ruzicka, 31 AD3d 862, 863 [2006]).

Defendant's initial contention regarding Supreme Court's disposition of property focuses upon certain bank accounts, a promissory note from 1976 and various items of personal property at the residence. Supreme Court found the disputed bank accounts to be separate property. While conflicting and sometimes confusing evidence was presented regarding the bank accounts, we find sufficient evidence in the record to uphold the determination that these funds represented separate property from sources such as inherited property, gifts and disability payments. It is unfortunate to note that, in any event, these funds have been significantly depleted for counsel fees during the course of this contentious and protracted divorce.
Although in 1976 plaintiff signed a promissory note payable to defendant for $7,500 (representing one-half the down payment on the home that they purchased together four years before the marriage), there was ample proof that any obligation thereunder was fully extinguished long before this divorce action was commenced. As to defendant's assertion that Supreme Court failed to address many items of personal property at the residence (such as farm equipment), we read the court's decision as awarding all such items to defendant. Plaintiff was to receive only items specifically named as exempted from defendant's award of the residence, and none of these items was specifically exempted. Indeed, in an affidavit responding to defendant's statement of proposed disposition of the property, plaintiff indicated that he was relinquishing any claim to such property.

Next, we address Supreme Court's decision not to award defendant any portion of plaintiff's state pension notwithstanding plaintiff's request in his statement of proposed disposition following trial that "the Court direct that plaintiff's interest in [his retirement] be divided pursuant to . . . Majauskas v Majauskas, implemented by a Qualified Domestic Relations Order." "Although pension rights earned during a marriage and prior to the commencement of a matrimonial action are marital property subject to equitable distribution, the distribution of the asset is based upon considerations of fairness and the respective situations of the parties" (Redgrave v Redgrave, 13 AD3d 1015, 1016 [2004] [internal quotation marks and citations omitted]). The parties were married the entire time that plaintiff was employed full time with the state. He was injured on that job and later received a state retirement benefit. This injury, and injuries he received while serving with the United States Marines in Vietnam, left him totally disabled. He received about $58,000 per year from the combination of Veteran's disability, Social Security disability and workers' compensation. Defendant made no claim as to these payments, which compensated plaintiff for his personal injuries. During the marriage, defendant held only part-time jobs, her annual earnings did not exceed $12,000, she was not working at the time of the trial, and her medical coverage ceased with the divorce. Defendant was the primary caretaker of the children when they were young, and plaintiff assumed those obligations in their late teenage years, including all support and college expenses. Defendant suffered some infirmities and had unsuccessfully attempted to obtain Social Security disability benefits, but Supreme Court was not convinced that her condition prevented her from working. [*3]The court held that her probable financial condition would improve following the divorce and plaintiff's financial condition would remain unchanged. At the time of trial, plaintiff was 56 years old and defendant was 53. Under the circumstances presented, we find that defendant should receive a portion of plaintiff's modest state pension. Plaintiff's state pension as reflected in the documents received in evidence was $13,326 per year in 2002. In light of all of the facts of this case, we find that defendant is entitled to a 50% share of plaintiff's state pension.

We find unpersuasive the argument that Supreme Court erred in not awarding maintenance, a determination that "rests soundly within the court's discretion" (Holmes v Holmes, 25 AD3d 931, 932 [2006]). Although defendant had a limited work history, she obtained a college degree while married. Significantly, during the several years prior to the divorce when the marriage was deteriorating (and when she assumed no obligation to provide housing or support to the children and was receiving temporary maintenance in the amount of $1,000 per month from August 8, 2001 until that order was terminated on August 30, 2005), she made no apparent effort to transition back into the work force. Defendant relies on her alleged infirmities as a reason for her lack of initiative in seeking employment. Supreme Court, however, rejected this excuse and we discern no reason to disregard the court's credibility determination. Contrary to defendant's contention, the statutory factors were sufficiently addressed by Supreme Court.

Finally, we find no abuse of discretion in Supreme Court's decision not to award defendant counsel fees (see generally Epps v Epps, 5 AD3d 903, 905 [2004]; Matter of Mitchell v Mitchell, 264 AD2d 535, 540 [1999], lv denied 94 NY2d 754 [1999]; Pejo v Pejo, 213 AD2d 918, 919 [1995], lv denied 85 NY2d 811 [1995]). The remaining arguments have been considered and found unavailing.

Cardona, P.J., Mercure, Spain and Mugglin, JJ., concur.

ORDERED that the judgment is modified, on the law and the facts, without costs, by awarding defendant a 50% share of plaintiff's state pension; matter remitted to the Supreme Court for submission of a qualified domestic relations order; and, as so modified, affirmed.

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Half the House ?

         Even Judges get it wrong.  That is why it is important to hire a New York Divorce Lawyer  that knows the law, read the following and learned how many Judges in New York get it wrong.

OPINION OF THE COURT

Saxe, J.

The determination of equitable distribution made by the Special Referee and incorporated in the court's judgment is both inequitable and unsupported by the record in numerous respects; in particular, the conclusion that plaintiff had no right to any portion of the marital residence or its appreciation in value was contrary to fundamental principles  

 

Cordula Bartha, Respondent-Appellant,
v
Nicholas Bartha, Appellant-Respondent.

 

State of New York, Appellate Division, First Department, January 27, 2005

 

 

of equitable distribution. Reversal of the financial provisions of the judgment is therefore necessary.

Plaintiff Cordula Bartha, who was born in the Netherlands, emigrated with her family to Italy in 1960. She earned a Ph.D. in German literature from the University of Rome, after which she found employment as an assistant to a publisher. In 1973, she met defendant Nicholas Bartha, a medical student of Romanian and Hungarian heritage. The parties lived together in Rome until defendant graduated from medical school in April 1974, at which time they relocated to the United States and moved in with defendant's parents in a large house owned by defendant and his mother in Rego Park, New York. While defendant studied to pass the examination required of graduates of foreign medical schools, plaintiff worked in the cultural section of the Netherlands Consulate.

In 1976, defendant passed the test that entitled him to practice medicine in the United States, and began an internship at Elmhurst General Hospital in Queens, New York. At about the same time, plaintiff learned that she was pregnant, and the parties married on January 10, 1977. The couple's two children, born, respectively, on August 5, 1977 and December 11, 1978, are now adults.

Although plaintiff continued to work until shortly before their first child was born, she subsequently remained at home with the children until the youngest was approximately 11 years old. Plaintiff returned to work at the Consulate on a part-time basis in 1989, and resumed full-time status there in 1994. In the meantime, defendant completed his internship and residency, and from 1979 until the present has worked as an emergency room physician.

The family, along with defendant's parents, moved to Manhattan in 1986, to a townhouse located on East 62nd Street, which was purchased in 1980 for $395,000, with cash totaling $199,699 obtained from a variety of sources, including a check from defendant's parents and a payment of separate funds belonging to plaintiff; the seller took back a mortgage for the remainder. Once the renovations on the building were completed, this townhouse contained the duplex apartment in which the parties resided, another apartment for defendant's parents, a rental apartment, and a physician's office unit on the first floor. Title to the property was placed in the name of defendant's parents at the time of the purchase; subsequently, it was put jointly in defendant's and his mother's name. Although the parties disagree as to the source of the mortgage payments between 1980 and 1985, it is undisputed that by 1988 the mortgage payments were made from the parties' joint account, as were the costs of the extensive renovations made on the property prior to their taking residence.

In October 2001, plaintiff wife vacated the marital residence and commenced this action for divorce.

After a fault trial, a divorce was granted in favor of plaintiff. The economic issues were referred to a Special Referee to hear and determine.

The Referee found that the townhouse on East 62nd Street was not marital property, but [*2]was in part the separate property of defendant and in part belonged to the parties' children. It was noted that defendant obtained title to 50% of the marital residence as a gift from his father and another 25% as an inheritance from his mother, while the remaining 25% had been willed by his mother to the children of the marriage.

The Referee then found that plaintiff was entitled to a distributive award, calculated to include (1) half the money the marital estate would have received had they rented out the apartment supplied to defendant's parents (determined to be $400,000), (2) half the income lost to plaintiff because she stayed home instead of working while the parties' children were young (determined to be $550,000), (3) half of the $1,112,467 in marital funds which the couple put into the marital residence, and (4) the $196,500 in separate property which plaintiff contributed over the years to the marital residence. The total distributive award thus came to a total of $1,227,733.50.

The Referee also directed defendant to pay plaintiff maintenance of $2,000 per month for three years, and denied plaintiff an award of counsel fees.

We affirm the determination awarding a divorce to plaintiff on grounds of cruel and inhuman treatment. Plaintiff's proof, when viewed cumulatively, established by a preponderance of the credible evidence that defendant had engaged in a course of conduct which was harmful to the plaintiff's physical and mental health, thus rendering cohabitation unsafe or improper (Domestic Relations Law § 170 [1]).

This was not a case of ordinary marital dissatisfaction or even "riotous quarrels" as defendant suggests. Defendant intentionally traumatized plaintiff, a woman of Jewish origin born in Nazi-occupied Holland, with swastika-adorned articles and notes affixed around their home, and became enraged when she removed them. He ignored her need for support and assistance while she was undergoing surgery and treatment for breast cancer (see Siczewicz v Siczewicz, 92 AD2d 915, 916 [1983], appeal dismissed 59 NY2d 968 [1983]). He systematically cut off her access to marital funds and credit as a means of psychological abuse. Even plaintiff's assertion that defendant completely ceased speaking to her is not benign, but must be understood in the context of the prior years' verbal abuse.

Physical violence is not a prerequisite for a showing that plaintiff's physical or mental well-being rendered it unsafe or improper for her to continue cohabiting with defendant as required by Domestic Relations Law § 170 (1) (see Hessen v Hessen, 33 NY2d 406, 410 [1974]; Pfoltzer v Morris-Pfoltzer, 9 AD3d 615, 616-617 [2004]). Nor did plaintiff need an expert to prove that defendant's actions had the claimed effect on her mental condition (see Levine v Levine, 2 AD3d 498, 500 [2003]), particularly in view of her explanation that she is the type of person who finds it difficult to consider seeking psychological treatment.

However, the Referee's determination of the economic issues must be rejected.

With regard to the Manhattan townhouse on East 62nd Street, which was purchased in 1980 for $395,000, and was valued by the neutral appraiser in June of 2002 at $5 million, it was error to accept at face value the claim that initially placing the townhouse in the names of defendant's parents, and defendant's subsequently holding joint title with his mother, rendered the property nonmarital. [*3]

It is true that it was defendant's parents who took title to the townhouse when it was purchased in 1980, and that defendant's father thereafter purported to gift his half of the house to defendant, while the other half remained in his mother's name, until at her death in 1997, when defendant inherited 50% of her interest in the property, with the remainder willed to her granddaughters, the parties' children. However, the names in whom title was placed does not end the analysis, especially in circumstances such as these.

It is central to the Equitable Distribution Law that the term "marital property" includes property acquired by either spouse during the marriage "regardless of the form in which title is held" (Domestic Relations Law § 236 [B] [1] [c]). That one of the spouses acquired title to property jointly with another relative would not necessarily interfere with its being considered marital, at least to the extent of the spouse's established interest (see Antenucci v Antenucci, 193 AD2d 948 [1993]). Moreover, in this instance, the manner in which defendant's parents initially obtained title, and defendant then obtained title from his parents, supports the claim that the townhouse was truly the marital property of these parties, at least in part, from the outset, and that any additional interest that defendant acquired from his parents subsequently might similarly be considered marital property as well.

It is undisputed that $45,095 of the $199,699 cash used for the purchase of the townhouse came from plaintiff's separate property. Moreover, while $114,369 of the cash down payment came from a check from defendant's parents' account, in the context of the probate of his mother's estate, defendant took the position that at least $60,000 of that payment belonged to him and constituted marital assets. Indeed, that defendant considered the funds held in his parents' names to belong in part to himself and his wife was illuminated by the manner in which he and his family handled their finances generally. For instance, while defendant's mother alone received the rents on the Rego Park building that she and defendant had purchased jointly before the marriage, the building's expenses were paid by plaintiff and defendant, from marital earnings. Indeed, in the probate of his mother's estate, in which defendant successfully defended a challenge by his nephews to his right to inherit his mother's interest in the townhouse, defendant asserted that he and his parents had so thoroughly commingled their assets that while he had, technically, inherited property from his mother, the inheritance actually amounted to a repayment to him of financial loans that he and his wife had made to his mother over the course of many years.

There is a "presumption in favor of marital property, premised on the contemporary view of marriage as an economic partnership, crediting each party's contributions, whether monetary or not, to the growth and value of the marriage" (DeJesus v DeJesus, 90 NY2d 643, 648 [1997]). The term marital property must be broadly construed in order to give effect to the economic partnership concept (Price v Price, 69 NY2d 8, 11 [1986]), and assure that "to the extent that the appreciated value of separate property is at all 'aided or facilitated' by the nontitled spouse's direct or indirect efforts, that part of the appreciation is marital property subject to equitable distribution" (Hartog v Hartog, 85 NY2d 36, 46 [1995]).

To the extent defendant establishes that a portion of the down payment for the Manhattan townhouse was from funds of his parents which had not been intermingled with marital funds, or [*4]from his own separate property, he is entitled to a credit for that contribution; but, otherwise, the property, or at least the 75% interest therein currently held in defendant's name, is marital property[FN*] (see Heine v Heine, 176 AD2d 77, 84 [1992], lv denied 80 NY2d 753 [1992]). The appreciation of the value of the house, from $395,000 to $5 million, was unrelated to the down payments, but very much related to the complete gutting and renovation which was largely overseen by plaintiff, and paid for out of the parties' marital funds (id.). Furthermore, the mortgage payments were made entirely from marital funds, at least from 1988 on, and possibly during the earlier years as well.

As to the distributive award that the court granted to plaintiff, both parties agree that there is neither support nor sufficient explanation of how the Referee calculated the amounts of $400,000 for loss of rental income and $550,000 for plaintiff's loss of employment income. Even if we agreed with the characterization of the marital residence as defendant's separate property, a remand would be necessary on this basis in any event.

The need for reassessment of the equitable distribution award also necessitates reassessment of the court's maintenance award to plaintiff. We note, however, that the record fails to disclose how a maintenance award of $2,000 per month for three years will enable plaintiff, who currently lives in a small apartment in Washington Heights with her two adult daughters, to retain her predivorce standard of living (see Hartog v Hartog, 85 NY2d at 50-52; Summer v Summer, 85 NY2d 1014 [1995]). Finally, the question of whether or not plaintiff is entitled to an award of legal fees in connection with this matrimonial proceeding must also be reassessed in accordance with the final equitable distribution determination.

Accordingly, the judgment of divorce of the Supreme Court, New York County (Joan B. Lobis, J.), entered May 9, 2003, which, inter alia, granted plaintiff a divorce, provided for a distributive award to the wife, awarded her maintenance in the sum of $2,000 per month for a period of three years, and denied her application for attorney's fees, should be modified, on the law, so as to vacate the provisions regarding equitable distribution, maintenance and counsel fees, and the matter remanded for a new fact-finding hearing and determination of those issues in accordance herewith, and otherwise affirmed, without costs.

Buckley, P.J., Tom, Andrias and Marlow, JJ., concur.

Judgment of divorce, Supreme Court, New York County, entered May 9, 2003, modified, on the law, so as to vacate the provisions regarding equitable distribution, maintenance and counsel fees, and the matter remanded for a new fact-finding hearing and determination of those issues in accordance herewith, and otherwise affirmed, without costs.

Footnotes


Footnote *: While plaintiff challenges the authority of defendant's mother to bequeath 25% of the house to her granddaughters, she nevertheless does not want to challenge her daughters' ownership rights.


Source: New York State Courts

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Think before you act!

J. Benjamin Stevens in his South Carolina Family Law Blog  compiled a list of some common mistakes people make during a divorce.  In New York, couples getting divorced make these mistakes over and over.

Divorces can be complicated and messy, both from a personal and a financial standpoint.  Forbes  published an article a couple of years ago which listed financial mistakes that everyone should try to avoid.  Here is their list, with my comments about each point listed afterward:

  • Having unrealistic expectations. Parties often forget that their living expenses typically double when they separate.  The same income(s) now must support not one, but two households, and it is not uncommon for things to get tight for a period of time.
  • Not communicating.  It is extremely important that clients give their attorney all of the necessary information about their case, and not didn't seem that important can result in disastrous consequences for the clients if their attorney is blindsided with them at trial.
  • Getting into an endless battle. Some divorcing spouses fight in Court because they want to fight.  Either they can't get past their own emotional hurt from the divorce itself, they want to make their spouse's life miserable, or they just enjoy turmoil, stress, and fighting.  Parties would be well served to fight only those issues which truly need to be fought and act reasonably throughout the process.
  • Getting hung up on the numbers.  It is important for the marital estate to be divided fairly between the parties, which generally means an approximately equal distribution.  However, there will always be some assets which would be better going to one spouse than the other, and in some cases it makes sense to use a different distribution to accomplish other necessary goals.  For instance, one spouse may benefit from taking less of the marital estate in exchange for a larger amount of spousal support (alimony).
  • Focusing on the present and not on the future.  The financial issues in a divorce affect both parties long after the divorce is over.  Parties should realize that when they are attempting to get as much as they can by way of assets that there are often debts and other expenses that accompany them.  It makes no sense to fight to get something that you truly can't afford to keep in the long run.
  • Forgetting to assess tax.  Many issues in divorce cases have tax consequences, and many of those do not show up until after the fact.  Examples can include alimony payments,  dependency exemptions, and capital gains issues. Parties are well served by having an accountant available to discuss these issues before it's too late.
  • Overlooking important .  It is important to make sure that everything in your divorce case is addressed and thoroughly analyzed by your attorney.  For instance, are you sure that your spouse doesn't have a retirement account with his employer and/or are you sure that the balance is what he/she says it is?  Let your attorney obtain the necessary information directly from the source to verify it authenticity and accuracy.
  • Failing to untangle all joint finances.  The sooner you can separate yourself financially from your spouse, the better off you will typically be.  If your spouse fails to make a timely payment on a joint debt, that stain can show up on your credit report.  Likewise, you may still be liable to the lender if your name is on that account and your spouse doesn't pay.
  • Failing to take into account the amount of time you'll to get your career back on track.  In many marriages, one (or both) spouses have made career sacrifices -- either for each other or for their children.  In these situations, it takes time for that spouse to be in a position to earn an income comparable to the other spouse, if ever.  Keep this in mind when you are going through a divorce, because in most cases, the parties do not have an equally financial standing at the outset.

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Everything is in Play. Maybe you should settle?

  Remember, when you are going through a divorce, you are entitled to full discovery of all businesses and assets.  A recent decision by Judge Drager was upheld by the appellate division.  Discovery is very powerful.  Many litigants settle in order to avoid this burdensome process.  It is not only time consuming, your legal fees will increase significantly.

Order, Supreme Court, New York County (Laura E. Drager, J.), entered August 10, 2006, which denied the motion of nonparties Hercules Corp., Andrew May and Alfred May to quash subpoenas and notices of deposition served upon them by defendant, unanimously modified, on the law, the facts and in the exercise of discretion, to quash the notice of deposition directed to Alfred May, and otherwise affirmed, without costs.

The documents and records sought by defendant wife from Hercules Corp. were appropriate to a characterization and valuation of Hercules, a closely held corporation in which plaintiff husband is a 2.5% shareholder. Under the Equitable Distribution Law, "[b]road pretrial disclosure which enables both spouses to obtain necessary information regarding the value and nature of the marital assets is critical if the trial court is to properly distribute the marital assets" (Kaye v Kaye, 102 AD2d 682, 686 [1984]; see also Gellman v Gellman, 160 AD2d 265 [1990]). "This searching exploration is more than justified in the case of close corporations, the ownership of which is in the hands of a small number of stockholders and for which there is little objective evidence of fair market value" (Briger v Briger, 110 AD2d 526, 527 [1985]). To the extent that the material has already been produced pursuant to the February 10, 2005 so-ordered stipulation, Hercules should simply so state. As to the other items, defendant wife will have to bear the costs of any document production.

We modify only to quash the notice of deposition served upon Alfred May. Defendant has not shown that the information sought from Alfred May is not obtainable from other sources (see Diogruardi v St. John's Riverside Hosp., 144 AD2d 333 [1988]), particularly since appellants have evidently agreed that they will make Andrew May available for deposition, and represent that, during the period in question, Andrew May was president of Hercules and responsible for its day-to-day operations.

We have considered appellants' other arguments and find them unavailing.

THIS CONSTITUTES THE DECISION AND ORDER [*2]
OF THE SUPREME COURT, APPELLATE DIVISION, FIRST DEPARTMENT.

ENTERED: JANUARY 18, 2007

CLERK

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What is Equitable

The first issue is often the easiest. In the vast majority of case, marital property is equally divided in New York. New York public policy values the contributions of a wage earner and a homemaker equally in the accumulation of property. Thus, unless there is a compelling fairness argument to be made, a New York Court is not likely to divide property in any other manner. In attempting to negotiate an agreement, most individuals find that a simple agreement to equally divide property is what works.

 

  Equally dividing property in New York, does not mean dividing each asset in half.  Judges in New York have authority to trade certain assets, so the result can be a fair division of assets.

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How do I discuss a Pre Nup

Most people have heard about prenuptial agreements, but far fewer are familiar with postnuptial agreements. Even if you have been married for many years, it's never too late to enter into an agreement that promotes domestic harmony and protects your union. In fact, veteran lawyers say the number of mid-marriage agreements has exploded in the past five years, perhaps as much as tenfold. There are many negative connotations attached to the world "postnup," as if it is admitting your relationship's defeat. It is less intimidating to look at the process as a communication tool and a "seatbelt" for your relationship in the case of death or divorce.

Why?

Bringing up the subject of a postnuptial agreement can be a great way to resolve underlying financial and communication issues that could be causing undue stress in your marriage. By opening up this line of discussion, you are well on your way to solving festering problems, which could strengthen your marriage. Here are a few reasons why a postnup (also referred to as post marriage agreements or simply marriage contracts) may be beneficial for your partnership:

 

  • You may have overlooked a prenuptial agreement and want to legally define your relationship in an agreement. Many couples got married in a time and place where discussion of marriage contracts was discouraged. Today this process is more common.
  • Most state's laws applying to property distribution in the case of death and divorce are vague. The most responsible way to manage your partnership is to take control and make your own decisions.
  • You may want to amend a prenuptial agreement you signed before marriage.
  • Your financial circumstances change through inheritance, receipt stock options, sale of a business, etc.
  • Perhaps one, or both of you, began your own business.
  • One of you has children from a previous marriage that you want to allocate funds or property to.
  • You or your spouse has an emotional need for security.
  • Creating a postnuptial agreement can be used for reconciliation purposes (if you have had marital difficulties and decide to "give it another shot," a postnup can be used as a security blanket).

When?

Every couple should at least discuss the concept of a postnup. This process isn't limited to times of transition in your relationship. Create a deadline for yourself and commit to initiating a conversation about marriage contracts by that date. Make sure you set aside time for this discussion when you can both focus and there aren't other forms of tension or distraction lingering.

Where?

Where do you normally discuss topics important to your partnership, such as life goals, finances or family? Find or create a calm, neutral spot where you both will feel open, at ease and unpressured. Whether you're sitting on your living room sofa, taking an afternoon walk or having a quiet dinner, you'll want to create an environment where both of you are most comfortable - mentally and physically.

How?

Bringing up the topic of a postnuptial agreement can be a very sensitive subject, especially if the other person's automatic reaction is to think "divorce." It is obviously easier to bring up the topic if you already have a prenup in place, since the postnup is just a natural extension of that document. If you haven't discussed marriage contracts before, proceed as delicately as possible. Here are a few suggestions to get you started:

 

  • Approach the topic from a collaborative viewpoint. For example, if you or your spouse are a stay at home parent, focus on the need to address your respective contributions to the relationship.
  • State your concerns in a straightforward fashion. Be sure to solicit your spouse's input and feedback.
  • You should remain open-minded and be prepared to make compromises in the negotiation.
  • A change of circumstances (financial or lifestyle) can present a good opportunity to bring up a postnup.
  • Your attorney or financial planner could raise the issue in conjunction with your overall financial planning.

Conversation Starters:

"I believe that ours is an equal partnership and recently discovered the laws in our state don't reflect this philosophy. Maybe we should talk about creating a more personalized agreement about our marriage."

"Now that I've quit my job to be a stay at home spouse, I feel that we need to discuss my value or worth in the relationship."

"Now that I've inherited the family business, I'm concerned about what would happen in the case of death or even divorce. I need to be confident that the business stays in the family."

"It's been awhile since we have discussed the financial status of our relationship. Can we set aside some time to really talk about money matters and discuss the option of creating a marriage agreement?"

The Commitment Conversation: A useful guide to help you create your agreement.

In an effort to help individuals and couples feel more comfortable in discussing the issues surrounding a postnup, we've created a guidebook called "The Commitment Conversation". Perhaps you or someone you know could use this incredibly supportive tool.

Important Note:

Even though postnups often serve the same purpose as prenups, some courts scrutinize postnups more carefully than prenups, sometimes holding them to a higher standard of fairness on the theory that the parties have less leverage in postnups than in prenups. Unlike prenups, there is no uniform act that applies to postnups. The general rule in this quickly emerging area, however, is to apply the same rules for all marriage contracts. Both you and your spouse should be represented by separate, independent counsel, who will advise you of any distinctions particular to your situation or where you live. In addition, you must provide full financial disclosure to each other.

REMEMBER: Don't let a postnup fall to the bottom of your "to do" list. The discussions ignited through the process generally come up eventually. Getting to know your partner's position now on important issues can help head-off more difficult discussions during the marriage. If you can't talk about touchy matters, this is a warning sign that your marriage is in need of help.

The foregoing is a brief outline of the chapter on "Internups: Just Between Us Married Folk" in PRENUPS FOR LOVERS by Arlene G. Dubin (Villard Books, a division of Random House, Inc., 2001). The chapter deals with why a postnup agreement may be good for you, and provides numerous examples of couples who have benefited, the legal implications of entering into a contract and how to bring up the topic.

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